I am sick and tired of stories of chronic disease, where the arguments for helping the debiliated person is "she was the most positive of all the athlets", or "he never said no if we needed a hand".
Truth is you deserve help just because you are living.
Even if you are grumpy and no ray of sunshine.
Even if you are depressed and a real party pooper.
Even if you have been exhausted most of your life and barely hold your own head over water.